You Belong Here
©Scott D. Wilson,P.Eng. 2015
It would seem that one of mankind’s fundamental drives is the search for acceptance and belonging. Whether atheist, agnostic or a person of faith, we all seem to seek a sense of
purpose and understanding why we exist.
I am here to state that regardless of faith that you belong here and now. The universe, the Creator, the first Cause or whatever you conceive has conspired to place you in this time
and place. So many regret their past but fail to realize that their failures have shaped them as much as their successes. Without pain joy does not taste quite so sweet. Learning what you don’t want is just as important as learning your passion. In eastern
culture there is a saying “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.”
You are here now and reading these words because your life has brought you here. I encourage you to make the best of this opportunity… become the ready student and anticipate your
teacher(s). I believe that part of our drive for belong stirs from our innate desire to be creative. We humans tend to create that on which we focus our thoughts. Artists see art in the world around them and become drawn to make it tangible to others. Engineers
see technical needs in the world and create solutions to address them. Accountants see elegance in economics and seek novel ways to use money and benefit from it.
If you find your thoughts focused on your deficits then you will inevitably create more deficits. If you find yourself focused on your weight then it will tend to increase. Mother
Teresa once said “I was once asked why I don't participate in anti-war demonstrations. I said that I will never do that, but as soon as you have a pro-peace rally, I'll be there.” She understood this principle. Most people truly do not want to lose weight;
they want to be healthy. Our health and wellbeing should be our focus, not our weight! Our focus should be on our riches, not on our poverty or our debts.
So I return again to my original premise. You do not lack belonging or acceptance. It was here all along. You belong here. Forgive your past self, they were doing their best with
what they knew and what they had at that time. They were younger and less wise. Accept that you are meant to be here and that you bring something unique with your specific set of 3.2 billion base pairs of DNA. This is your time. Open yourself to learning.
Open yourself to the almost limitless possibilities for your life. Learn yourself and learn your purpose… then face your fears and follow it!
“You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it
should.” – Max Ehrmann (The Desiderata)
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